Gonna get to the Chapel are we....Gonna get maarriiied

We finally decided on a ROM date.

I am how thoughtful. I help Gan pick Valentine's Day cause then it's just soo easy to remember (else he'll forget !!) ..=) It also saves him time, money and gifts =). Aside from convenience, well it is rather special to be married on the 14th of Feb... For ROM, we are just inviting close friends and relatives.. won't be more than a party of 30 ish.



Violet told her mom that I was gonna get married in 3 weeks, her mom said :

" So fast?? Is she pregnant?" ................Lolx.. NO I am not guys.



Cat told her mom I was gonna get married in 3 weeks and her mom asked :

" IS it the same guy?" ... Lolx.. I previously took different boyfriends to her parents' dinner nights...

Anyway, so yes, finaly getting hitched I suppose, obviously my mom can't wait.

"Better go and marry already.. headache, you how old oredi? Live together so long oredi somemore, paktho paktho never marry.... cannot cannot! Go marry! Then at least I can relax liao...."



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The funny thing is that Gan and I have been fighting a big gigantic deal. As if some kind of a bad omen. Like those worse-than-ever ones. With flying oestrogens and tears and Korean drama spices.

A whole mix of me having pent-up PMS, mental and emotional shits, and him not understanding us women's 'prerogatives again' (lolx, ok ok no such thing), and how girls are always talking too much and guys are never saying enough, and with all the hormones and bad 'chi' flying around, Alas!...the good logic, common sense and wisdom also FLED out the window, and that kind of stuff... It's just as if any small, tiny ridiculous issue can spark an atomic bomb between us.
No no, it's really unfathomable at first. But I realised, it kinda start coming together in the end.
But we've decided take these obstacles as a test. And prove that we can survive it and have that Happy ever after ending.. when we got it right in the end, it'd feel so much sweeter.


I know.. I know.... real life ain't no fairy tale. There's a lot of fighting involved..
fighting with yourself mostly, ..... your ego, your pride, your selfishness and your ignorance.

It's just the most tiring thing to fight with yourself. Most times, I realised I wasn't fighting with Gan, I was fighting with myself, my ego and my foolishness.

But past all the storms and smokey black clouds,... I know me and Gan shall see a bright sunny constellation of rays again.. We're gonna be Mr and Mrs Gan very very soon!



I can't tell you how anxious, excited and at the same time, nervous I am. Gan has been away in Seremban for CNY, while I am here in Singapore with mommy, daddy and my baby brothers, these few days seem to be the longest days in my life.

My days just seem so empty..


And it made me realise that I just can't wait to be officially, rightfully, legally by his side every freaking day of the week...as his wife.

This morning 5 am, Gan sent the sweetest International SMS :

"Dear, I really want you to marry me. I know we've been arguing a lot, but I think it's just one of those things. I rather argue now and get to know you much better, than later on. I love you dear!"

The smile on my face lasts til now.

xoxo

Happy 'Niu' Yr to Everyone!!

Dear Valued Friends,


The Outgoing year has been an interesting and enlightening year for many of us.
Not-so-easy moments may have crept at times, however wisdom and experience sprouts.

We'd like to share our Great Joy at Walton Int'l Group, as we managed to secure Tremendous Growth and Results last year, despite the various catastrophies.

We are proud to maintain our 30-yr long track record of delivering

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Most Importantly, we'd like to wish you and your family Overflow of Joy, Good Health and Prosperity This New Year!


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Thanks Guys! Hope it helps.

Hepi New Year.. And Happy 'Niu' Year..

You know ah.. I deserve real spanking..

I've been bumming around and not doing much eversince end Dec.

I moved house last Dec to a jungle resort. lolx. Well, at least it feels like it, trees all around and it's damn windy. I love it! Gan loves it! Everyone loves it!


And eversince I started living with my boys, .... which comprise of fiancee and brothers.... I have been nagging around the house like a mother..
until the real mother hen came back to Singapore to take her throne.


But most importantly, other than waking up for work and makan-ing....

I stay awake for DOTA!!!!!!!!!!!!

You ask DiDa, she's like some crazed loony on drugs.. everynight 10 pm,

Both of us will start unsheathing our handphone and type profusely:

"DOTA BABE?? NOW??"

Gone are the days, we go clubbing and drinking... Nopee...nothing beats a good DOTA session...pls google DOTA if you don't know DOTA, sigh....

So...we play DOTA on Garena almost everynight, between 6 to 10 of us each night.
I may be a noob, but one with passion, perseverance and very bad co-ordination and motor skills.

Do you DOTA?

Welcome to Taiwan!!!!

Actually, Gan is really superb.

Me and Gan had a company incentive trip in Dec 2008 from 12-17th and we were headed for Taiwan. So we and the Walton's AHK division flew again for the umpttenth time this year.. yet for another overseas holiday trip, paid for by my boss, who is the bestest in the world.. Yipeee!!!

However....

Taiwan is where Kenny's from (Kenny's my first boyfriend, we were tog for 6 yrs), and I was supposed to meet Kenny's brothers and mom when we got to Tai Chung.
Really just to catch up, and out of graciousness and I kinda miss them too, anyway, Kenny himself is in Shanghai not Tai Chung.

But Gan was as usual, totally cool about it, in fact we all hung out together and had a great time! Gan is the coolest.


So, anyway.. besides Gan, Taiwan is pretty great too..

I have many stories to tell..



But first.. I need to categorise the stories again, ( for the sake of being organised and systemised, lol)...

So....

First up - Foods of Taiwan

then - Sight seeing in Taiwan

then - Friends in Taiwan

and last but not least - Ncturnal & other happening activities (like shopping) in Taiwan.

I think Taipei/Taichung.., like Jakarta, Bangkok or Hong Kong.... ain't no Paris...The lakes ain't no Danube, the main shopping street aint no Champs de-Elysee, the beach ain't no Malibu and the mountains ain't no Alps..

But they do make up for it in other ways.

The snacks are worth queueing for, the culture is modern, yet laid back and down-to-earth and the people are wonderful!!

They are very very fun, friendly, playful and the guys are damn cute!!!

They all look like Jay Chou and Van! Same hair and style and all...

However, the girls are damn made up, with cantilevered eye lashes that touch the sky and eyes smokey black like panda, but *shrugs*.. guys like..*Zzzzz....ZZzzz




Anyhow, gotta upload the pics then.. till then.